Archive | April 2025

Newsletter – April 2025

This month certainly flew by….

We spent many days traveling–lots of road time! If any of you have driven across the country, then you know what it’s like. I’m always amazed at the difference in terrain from one state to the next. We saw everything from desert-like baren land to lush mountains covered in trees and even a little remaining snow.

This photo was taken just outside of Deer Lodge, Montana. If you’ve read my series, “His Heart’s Long Journey,” then you might recognize the city name. When I saw the road sign, I just had to take the photo! I love seeing in person where my characters ventured.

There’s so much beauty in this country! People often ask me if I’d consider moving back to Idaho–even my husband asked me that question on this trip. Yes, Northern Idaho is gorgeous and I grew up there, but now that I’ve lived in Tennessee for more than thirty years, it’s home. I enjoyed spending time where I lived in my youth, but a lot of it has changed. The area grew up, too! Coeur d’Alene (where I lived right before moving to Tennessee), has more than doubled in population. It made me a little sad to see all the congestion. However, people that have no idea what it was like in “the old days” absolutely love it. They’ve embraced the mountains and lakes and the city’s pristine beauty. I preferred it before all the high-rises filled the downtown landscape.

Here’s a photo taken going into Coeur d’Alene. It truly is gorgeous!

I fully understand the saying “Home is Where the Heart Is.” My heart is here in the South with my husband and my sweet dog, Jax. I’m at peace here, and at my age, I see that as a very good thing! I don’t need any kind of fast-paced life anymore. Maybe that’s what I saw changed in my old home town. The place is ‘buzzing’ more than it used to. It’s still fun to visit, but I’m happy to be home.

I often wonder about the people who live way out in the vastness of states such as South Dakota and Wyoming, where houses dot the landscape here and there. Miles and miles between each one. For me, that’s too laid back! Too quiet and no ‘buzz’ at all. But I’m sure the people who grew up there and still embrace it would feel stifled in my small town in Tennessee. It’s things like this that inspire my stories.

I’ll be giving a workshop next month at a writer’s conference in Clarksville, TN, that centers around the concept that a character’s environment blends with the character to make them who they are. Lily Larsen, from my book “Whispers from the Cove,” would be a completely different person if she had been raised in St. Louis, MO, rather than in the Smoky Mountains. Our environment definitely shapes us–as do the people that surround us. I’m excited to lead this workshop!

Think about your favorite stories and try to imagine your characters in a different setting. Let me know what you think! Would it completely change the story?

I’d also love to hear what drew you to live where you are. Is it where you grew up, or were you “transplanted” there?

You’ll be glad to know that “Ardent Adelia” is rolling right along. I took time off from writing while on my trip, but I’m back at it again and excited to bring her story to you!

Thank you for sharing all my adventures with me!

HUGS!

Jeanne

Embrace the Moment!

Oh, my goodness! I confess that I was shocked to see that I haven’t written a post for almost a year! (I’m hiding my head in shame now…)

Well, that’s going to change! Thank you to everyone who has followed me on this site, and to all of my newsletter readers who have just subscribed here, thank you for keeping up with me and my life’s changes. You can look forward to a regular newsletter-type update each month, along with a few other posts thrown in here and there with my random thoughts on this, that, and the other. I even plan on sharing some short stories I’ve written. And please, if you have a particular topic you’d like me to chat about, leave a comment below and tell me what it is.

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So, how many of you embrace every moment of every day? If you “raised your hand” I’d love to have a long conversation with you to discover how you do it. It’s not easy to always live in the moment.

My grandson had his hand raised, but that was a long time ago! He was a baby, and I think babies live in the moment more than adults. They don’t have the same kind of worries we have. As long as they’re fed, changed, and get lots of love and plenty of sleep, they’re good to go!

I was inspired to write this post because of an article I saw that stated that we only live in the present 20% of the time. Wow! I didn’t believe it until I started paying attention to myself and where my mind was at any given moment. I often found myself fretting about the future and pondering over troubling things from my past.

Worry has been one of my biggest downfalls. It does no good at all, and it often makes my stomach churn. Just the opposite of something good. Regardless, it often hangs over me like an incurable illness.

The future will happen whether we’re ready for it or not. We can’t stop time. It’s good to plan for the future, but I feel it’s best not to dwell on it. Doing that robs us of the moments we’re in.

So often, at special events, I see people taking videos with their phones and watching the event through the lens of their cameras. I assume it’s so that they can relive what they saw or share the event with other people. Wouldn’t it be better to simply enjoy the event and fully embrace it by watching it with their own eyes? Snap a photo for a memento, but otherwise, put the phone down. Love the moment!

At mealtimes, do you tend to rush, wanting to move on to something else? I love food, and I like to savor it. In addition, mealtimes can be wonderful opportunities to engage in conversation with those sharing the meal. I have a lot of fond memories of family dinners. It breaks my heart to see people at restaurants who each have a phone in hand, and they’re paying no attention at all to the others at the table with them. I confess, that I’m guilty of checking my phone from time to time, but I’m making a conscious effort not to do that. Before cell phones, we never fretted over who might or might not have something to say to us at that very moment, interrupting the time we have with the people we’re actually with. We need to stay engaged.

I’m challenging myself–and you–to stay in the moment. Lock in to everything and everyone around you and see the world and those you love through your eyes and not the screen of your phone. Of course, if you’re reading this on your phone, thank you! You’re ‘in the moment’ with me right now, aren’t you? There’s nothing wrong with making time to do business on your phone or keep up with social media, but never let it consume you.

Please share your thoughts below! I’d love to hear from you.

BIG HUGS!

Jeanne